How to Fix a Relationship While Coping With a Breakup
In this article we will talk about 2 related topics. The topics are: How to fix a relationship and how to cope with a breakup or imminent breakup.
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I will assume you’ve been on the receiving end of a breakup. Next we will assume that you are not willing to accept this breakup quietly. And that you want to do everything within your power to fix your relationship and win back your Ex.
Okay then… Let’s get started. (I like your determination).
Have you ever heard the saying, “knowledge is power”? Well it is true. The more you know about a given situation the better prepared you’re to deal with it — and take it to a successful conclusion.
Before we get into the fixing the relationship let’s deal with the coping aspect of the breakup.
Here are some ideas:
1. Relax and get your head on straight. I know this is a very stressful and emotional time for you. However try to keep your eye on the prize (fixing your relationship and winning back your Ex).
“Positive thinking” has become somewhat clich. But it absolutely does work to stay positive, upbeat and confident in yourself. If you believe in you and your ability to make things right, you are more likely to get what you are after.
So… Hang in there!
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2. Don’t chase, stalk or smother your Ex. Doing this make you appear needy and could hurt your chances to fix your relationship.
You can (and should) stay in touch with your Ex — perhaps once or twice a week. But don’t get overly emotional, nostalgic or whiny (again, this will only make things worse). An effective approach is to think of your Ex as a “good friend” and have a conversation at that level.
Now let’s look at how to fix a relationship.
As I touched on a moment ago, knowing what caused the breakup is a key element to fixing the relationship. So what was it? Do you know?
Why don’t we continue with this document. If it is not clear what went wrong to cause the breakup then some real soul-searching and relationship assessment must be done. Think, think, and think.
Some common reasons relationship fail are: infidelity (cheating), bored or in a rut, being taken for granted or under appreciated, lost trust, and jealousy/insecurity.
Once you’ve identified the root cause of the breakup you can take steps to fix the relationship and win back your Ex. And, of course, different causes require different solutions and ways of fixing things.
Yet another exciting detail regarding this theme. Here are a couple of ideas to consider. Adapt them for whichever “side” of the equation you (and your Ex) may fit.
Boredom/In a Rut – it is easy to fall into a same-old, same-old pattern in your life. One of the easiest ways to break out is to try something new, different and completely out of character for your relationship. Invite your spouse (or Ex) to do something wild and crazy Jealousy – is really an insecurity and trust issue. If you are jealous, ask yourself why. And if your Ex is jealous (without reason or cause) work to demonstrate that their fears are unfounded and that you love THEM exclusively. Infidelity/cheating – This is the biggie. If you’ve been cheating, first stop it. Then sincerely apologize and guarantee your Ex this will never happen again (and MEAN IT). If you’ve been cheated ON – and you believe your Ex IS sorry – and the relationship is worth saving… You must forgive and forget.
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I dont know how to fix my relationship? My boyfriend and I’ve been together for 3 years. It’s a long distance relationship and always has been. I love him to death and I know hes always felt the same. Our plans were always for him to move here when I graduate High school and then we’ll go to college together here. Well hes in his first year of college up there, waiting for me to graduate high school, but lately he has been acting very different. Its mostly things no one wouldn’tice but me, for instance he never says I love you unless I say it first. Hes been calling me by my first name which he never used to do instead of babe or baby. And hes just been acting very cold. It seems like whenever we talk hes annoyed. Anytime we used to fight the very next morning I would get the sweetest messages saying how sorry he was even if it was my fault and now when we fight he’ll go for days without talking to me. I know it would seem like hes just busy with college life, but hes not. In fact hes upset because he hasn't really made any friends there yet. So whats going on? Is he just taking his frustration out on me? He has even said when we were fighting he doesn't really want to move here which is the one thing we’ve looked forward to for the past 3 years! Is he falling out of love?
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TALK TO HIM! Ask him if he's really happy. If he really wants to be with you. Sometimes it's just a phase… Kind of the fact that one knows that one is in a more “open” enviornment sometimes causes some doubts… I think things and relationships can be fixed when both parties are willing to put time and energy and positive vibes
But you need to communicate… So do it!
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He probably wants to break up, but is being too much of a chickensh*t to do it. You and he are both really, really young, and your relationships seldom work out even when you're living in the same city. High school relationships almost always end by the first or second year of college. Sorry you had to hear that, but it’s sadly true.
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His college life needs to be fixed first.He feels stress from academics,social activities and not able to balance the two.he’ll gradually lose interest in you if he feels his college life is not working out well like he wanted to. Maybe he needs counselling but is hesitant to try it.You should support him and attend his college for your program so that he’ll get support and confidence from you.Good luck!
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Sweetheart, you’re too young to be thinking about this, he probably either met someone else, or fallin out of love for you. My advice just like everyone else is to DUMP HIM. Its the smartest thing to do. Because you’ll find other guys, and do you really think he’s worth it? Worth the wait? You deciede your future or his future?
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He's out of love. You’re young, too young to be planning the rest of your life together…you're going to meet thousands of other guys in the next few years (college you meet a lot). I'd really think about it, what matters more, your future or a boy who doesnt care for you like he used to?
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Yup. Thats what happens in college. And when you go there you’ll realize too. College is a different free atmosphere. My advice. Dump the dirt bag, before you find out the hard way. I been there and done what you’re going through.
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It’s time for you to move on and find another, which is exactly what it sounds like he’s doing.